Effective Steps to Overcome Measles (visible)2

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What needs to be done:
Stay consult your doctor everything. Usually the doctor will try to get red spots on the child not to appear in the whole body. If indeed his whole body full of patches, this means campaknya quite heavy. Especially if you have symptoms of complications, then consult your doctor whether the child needs to be treated or not.

Most people assume that the more red spots that looked the better because it means the child will recover quickly. This opinion is wrong because we are actually required to be more vigilant. But when the diagnosis was established, and no complications, the child is treated at home.

- Healing Phase
If the red spots had come out, usually fever will come down by itself. Furthermore, the red spots will turn black and scaly skin, called hyperpigmentation. In the end spots will flake or fall out or heal by itself. Generally, it takes up to 2 weeks until the child recovers completely from the remnants of measles.

What needs to be done:
Permanent give medicine that is given by the physician while maintaining a balanced intake of nutritious foods and regular breaks. Do not ever assume that the red spots are reduced and the symptoms are gone means campaknya virus has been lost. We still need to continue treatment until the child is completely healed.

OTHER THINGS THAT NEED ATTENTION

* Do not take medication according to their own rules but must be based on doctor's instructions. When you do have to take medicine 3 times a day it must be done well. If there are other symptoms that arise, such as seizures or shortness of breath, consult your doctor.

* You should grant an easily digestible food like rice porridge. This is to avoid the spread of other infections, like strep throat, flu, or other. It is advisable to provide an easily digested food for a month later to his condition fully recover.

* Because easily transmitted through air, the child should measles be treated in their own room so as not to transmit the disease. But remember, do not be impressed if the child is isolated, give toys to entertain so she would not get bored.

* Every child who is sick needs adequate rest. Children measles so, give time to rest to maximum.

* Do not leave infants who have not received measles immunization against measles adjacent to the patient until the disease is completely cured. Very probably the measles virus will infect the baby.

* Keep your child's body to stay clean so she still feels comfortable. It's okay to children bathed or wiped her whole body. Opinion that say that children should not be bathed measles is wrong because when her body was dirty and sweating will cause a sense of incredible sticky and itchy. The urge to scratch an itchy skin can cause infection in the form of small boils fester. Use baby soap that is not too stimulating the skin and gently rub her skin. After bathing, dry and sprinkle with talc powder salycyl.

* During the child's illness and in recovery should we separate the dining and bathroom equipment, such as plates, cups, spoons, towels, and clothes sprai. This is to avoid the occurrence of transmission through indirect contacts.

TREATMENT BY symptomatic

Rudy explains, are only symptomatic treatment of measles, which is treating the symptoms alone. For example, when they appear so that untreated fever is a symptom of fever. When you have a cough then cough medicine used to relieve cough. Similarly, if the child diarrhea then the doctor will give antidiarrheal medication. In some children who are gifted seizures, these symptoms can arise so that the doctor will prepare antikejang drug. While until recently, said Rudy, not yet found a drug that could directly address the measles virus.

Treatment of symptoms is very important because if not handled properly can be very dangerous measles. Complications can occur, especially in severe measles. The characteristics of severe measles, besides bercaknya in the whole body, the symptoms do not improve after treatment for 1-2 days. Conversely, if for 1-2 days of treatment the symptoms had improved, children generally suffer only a mild measles.

Complications that occur normally in the form of inflammation of the lungs (pneumonia bronchodilating) and brain inflammation (encephalitis). This occurs because the measles virus can spread through the bloodstream to other body tissues. These complications are generally the most frequent cause of death in children.

To determine whether complications had occurred or not is usually characterized by distinctive signs. When it happens encephalitis usually occur one time or recurring seizures, awareness of children declines, and high body temperature or hard to go down because the infection has reached the brain.

While pneumonia is indicated by symptoms of cough with phlegm, runny nose, and shortness of breath. It may be said, death is not caused by measles itself but the complications that occur. Normally this will happen to children who are malnourished and have a weak immune system.

DIFFERENT FROM GERMAN MEASLES

Measles usual, Rudy said, is different from German measles or rubella. German Measles generally have milder effects and is not fatal. Generally also occur in children aged 5 to 14 years.

It's symptoms are almost the same as regular measles, such as colds, coughs, colds and high fever. What distinguishes, red spots on rubella does not arise too much and not as bad as ordinary measles, also rapidly disappeared within 3 days. Other symptoms, usually a child's appetite will decrease due to a swelling of the spleen.

Instead we should be more worried if rubella attack pregnant women because the virus can spread to the fetus through the placenta. When the fetus is infected, the child will be born with congenital rubella syndrome abnormalities, such as infant's eyes had cataract, can not hear, there was calcification in the brain, there are also many children grow up with growth retardation.

Rudy stressed, every girl should have rubella vaccination. This is to anticipate the occurrence of rubella as well as protecting the fetus later. Not only in women, rubella vaccination is also important for men. Pointless prevent rubella and infect not attacked his wife, who probably was pregnant later. Source: Irfan Hasuki. / Nakita

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Effective Steps to Overcome Measles (visible)

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Measles is actually present throughout the year without a summer. Although infected only once, do the anticipation for the child not to have complications.

Measles or more often called tampek easily transmitted. The virus can live and spread through the air, "Because this disease is still endemic throughout the year in some areas, particularly in dense settlements," said dr. Rudy Firman, Sp.A, from RSAB Harapan Kita Jakarta.

Measles disease in a foreign language called measles, is caused by the measles virus or morbili. The virus is found in outdoor air. When you get into the child's body, especially the body resistance is weak, it is very possible he contracted the measles. We recommend that if there is one child exposed to measles, the other children are encouraged to not having contact with him. The virus that came out via breath or saliva spray (droplets) can be inhaled through the nose or mouth and will infect other children.

According to Rudy, measles only happens once in a lifetime. When the little child had been exposed to measles then after that he normally would not be affected again. However, because this assumption has been too popular in the community many parents who deliberately infecting children with measles so that later he did not hit anymore. "This is a wrong action," commented Rudy.

Precisely every child should be fortified from this disease with measles immunization. It is not guaranteed 100%, but even if up to measles virus, then the conditions are not too severe. Immunization can be done twice. First at the age of 9 months, this age was chosen because the baby antibodies derived from the mother through the placenta has been progressively decreasing, so need additional antibodies through immunization. In order for your child's immune better then repeated measles vaccination at age 15 months with immunization MMR (Measles, Mumps and Rubella). Next, measles immunization conducted when the child was 6 years old. Why need to be prevented? Because measles can cause fatal complications.

4 PHASE MEASLES and handling

For measles attack does not become too heavy, we can do the following things on the basis of the phase-phase:

- Incubation period
Incubation phase lasts about 10-12 days. In this phase of infection is somewhat difficult to detect because the symptoms are still common even not visible at all. Maybe some children have a fever but generally children do not feel any change. Red patches that are characteristic of measles was not yet out.

What needs to be done:
Keep your children well balanced nutrition for body resistance remains high. For example by eating vegetables, fruits, and maintain body fitness. If it is later measles really attacking the possibility of not going too badly.

- Phase Prodormal

Is the phase in which symptoms of the disease has begun to arise, such as colds, coughs, colds, and fever. Child's eyes will look reddish and watery. Not only that, children can not see clearly into the light because he felt the glare (photo phobia). Another feature, next to the mouth appear white spots that will last 3-4 days. Some children also experience diarrhea. One-two days later a high fever that go up and down, ranging from 38 to 40.5 ° C. In the second phase of the red spots have not appeared.

What needs to be done:
Checked immediately the child to the doctor when flu, coughs, colds, and fever began to appear. Do not wait for the appearance of the rash because the child needs help immediately. Quick action is helpful to anticipate the severity of disease.

- Phase Makulopapuler
Phase makulopapuler the release of red spots that often accompanied by high fever between 38 to 40.5 ° C. Initially, these spots appear only in some parts of the body, usually behind the ears, neck, chest, face, hands and feet. To distinguish from other diseases, measles is generally the color patches would be very peculiar; red with a size that is not too big but not too small.

Typically, red spots all over the body will meet within one week although this depends on the endurance of each child. In children who had good endurance red patches are generally only in some parts of the course. But in children who have weak immune system, the more red spots. This also indicates that measles suffered by children, including weight.

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Langkah Efektif Mengatasi Campak (tampak)

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Campak sebenarnya hadir sepanjang tahun tanpa musim. Walau tertular hanya sekali, lakukan antisipasi agar anak tak sampai mengalami komplikasi.

Penyakit campak atau yang lebih sering disebut tampek mudah sekali menular. Virusnya bisa hidup dan menyebar lewat udara, "Karenanya penyakit ini tetap mewabah sepanjang tahun di beberapa daerah, terutama di pemukiman padat," kata dr. Rudy Firmansyah, Sp.A, dari RSAB Harapan Kita Jakarta.

Penyakit
campak yang dalam bahasa asing disebut measles, disebabkan oleh virus campak atau morbili. Virus ini terdapat di udara bebas. Bila masuk ke dalam tubuh anak, terutama yang daya tahan tubuhnya sedang lemah, maka sangat mungkin ia terjangkit campak. Sebaiknya jika ada satu orang anak terkena campak, maka anak lain dianjurkan untuk tidak berdekatan dengannya. Virusnya yang keluar melalui napas atau semburan ludah (droplet) bisa terisap lewat hidung atau mulut dan akan menulari anak lain.

Menurut Rudy, campak hanya terjadi sekali seumur hidup. Bila waktu kecil anak sudah pernah terkena campak maka setelah itu biasanya dia tidak akan terkena lagi. Namun, karena anggapan ini sudah terlalu memasyarakat banyak orang tua yang sengaja menulari anaknya dengan campak agar nantinya dia tidak terkena lagi. "Ini adalah tindakan yang keliru," komentar Rudy.

Justru sebaiknya setiap anak dibentengi dari penyakit ini dengan imunisasi campak. Memang tidak dijamin 100%, tapi kalaupun sampai terjangkit virus campak, maka kondisinya tidak terlalu parah. Imunisasi bisa dilakukan dua kali. Pertama di usia 9 bulan, usia ini dipilih karena antibodi bayi yang berasal dari ibunya lewat plasenta sudah semakin menurun sehingga butuh antibodi tambahan lewat imunisasi. Agar kekebalan tubuh anak semakin baik maka pemberian vaksinasi campak diulang di usia 15 bulan dengan imunisasi MMR (Measles, Mumps and Rubella). Berikutnya, imunisasi campak dilakukan ketika anak berusia 6 tahun. Mengapa perlu dicegah? Karena campak bisa menimbulkan komplikasi yang berakibat fatal.

4 FASE CAMPAK DAN PENANGANANNYA

Agar serangan campak tidak menjadi terlalu berat, kita bisa melakukan hal-hal berikut berdasarkan fase-fasenya:

- Masa Inkubasi

Fase inkubasi berlangsung sekitar 10-12 hari. Di fase ini agak sulit mendeteksi infeksinya karena gejalanya masih bersifat umum bahkan tidak terlihat sama sekali. Mungkin beberapa anak mengalami demam tetapi umumnya anak tidak merasakan perubahan apa-apa. Bercak-bercak merah yang merupakan ciri khas campak pun belum keluar.

Yang perlu dilakukan:

Jagalah keseimbangan gizi anak dengan baik agar daya tahan tubuhnya tetap tinggi. Misalnya dengan makan sayur, buah, serta menjaga kebugaran tubuhnya. Bila memang nantinya campak benar-benar menyerang kemungkinan terjadinya tidak akan terlalu parah.

- Fase Prodormal

Adalah fase dimana gejala penyakit sudah mulai timbul seperti flu, batuk, pilek, dan demam. Mata anak pun akan tampak kemerah-merahan dan berair. Tak hanya itu, anak tidak bisa melihat dengan jelas ke arah cahaya karena merasa silau (photo phobia). Ciri lain, di sebelah dalam mulut muncul bintik-bintik putih yang akan bertahan 3-4 hari. Beberapa anak juga mengalami diare. Satu-dua hari kemudian timbul demam tinggi yang turun naik, berkisar 38-40,5° C. Di fase kedua bercak merah belum muncul.

Yang perlu dilakukan:

Segeralah memeriksakan anak ke dokter ketika flu, batuk, pilek, dan demam mulai muncul. Jangan sampai menunggu munculnya bercak-bercak merah karena anak butuh pertolongan secepatnya. Tindakan cepat sangat membantu untuk mengantisipasi beratnya penyakit.

- Fase Makulopapuler

Fase makulopapuler yakni keluarnya bercak merah yang sering diiringi demam tinggi antara 38-40,5°C. Awalnya, bercak ini hanya muncul di beberapa bagian tubuh saja, biasanya di belakang kuping, leher, dada, muka, tangan dan kaki. Untuk membedakan dengan penyakit lain, umumnya warna bercak campak akan sangat khas; merah dengan ukuran yang tidak terlalu besar tapi juga tidak terlalu kecil.

Biasanya, bercak merah akan memenuhi seluruh tubuh dalam waktu satu minggu meskipun hal ini tergantung pula pada daya tahan tubuh masing-masing anak. Pada anak yang memiliki daya tahan tubuh baik umumnya bercak merahnya hanya pada beberapa bagian saja. Tetapi pada anak yang memiliki daya tahan tubuh lemah, bercak merahnya akan semakin banyak. Hal ini juga menunjukkan kalau campak yang diderita anak termasuk berat.

Yang perlu dilakukan:

Tetaplah mengonsultasikan segala sesuatunya pada dokter. Biasanya dokter akan mengusahakan agar bercak merah pada anak tidak sampai muncul di sekujur tubuh. Bila memang sekujur tubuhnya dipenuhi bercak, ini berarti campaknya cukup berat. Apalagi jika sudah muncul gejala komplikasi, maka konsultasikanlah ke dokter apakah anak perlu dirawat atau tidak.

Sebagian masyarakat beranggapan bahwa semakin banyak bercak merah yang tampak semakin bagus karena berarti anak akan cepat sembuh. Pendapat ini keliru karena kita sebenarnya dituntut untuk lebih waspada. Tetapi bila diagnosis sudah ditegakkan, dan tak ada komplikasi, anak cukup dirawat di rumah.

- Fase Penyembuhan

Bila bercak merah sudah keluar, umumnya demam akan turun dengan sendirinya. Selanjutnya bercak merah akan berubah menjadi kehitaman dan bersisik, disebut hiperpigmentasi. Pada akhirnya bercak akan mengelupas atau rontok atau sembuh dengan sendirinya. Umumnya, dibutuhkan waktu hingga 2 minggu sampai anak sembuh benar dari sisa-sisa campak.

Yang perlu dilakukan:

Tetap berikan obat yang sudah diberikan oleh dokter sambil menjaga asupan makanan bergizi seimbang dan istirahat yang teratur. Jangan pernah beranggapan kalau bercak merah sudah berkurang dan gejalanya sudah hilang berarti virus campaknya sudah musnah. Kita tetap perlu melanjutkan pengobatan sampai anak benar-benar sembuh.

HAL LAIN YANG PERLU DIPERHATIKAN

* Jangan melakukan pengobatan menurut aturan sendiri tetapi harus berdasarkan petunjuk dokter. Bila memang harus mengonsumsi obat 3 kali sehari maka harus dilakukan dengan baik. Bila ada gejala lain yang timbul, misalnya kejang-kejang atau sesak napas, segeralah berkonsultasi pada dokter.

* Sebaiknya berikan makanan yang mudah dicerna seperti bubur nasi. Hal ini untuk menghindari terjangkitnya infeksi lain, seperti radang tenggorokan, flu, atau lainnya. Dianjurkan untuk memberikan makanan yang mudah dicerna selama sebulan kemudian sampai kondisinya benar-benar pulih.

* Karena mudah menular lewat udara, sebaiknya anak campak dirawat di kamar sendiri agar tidak menularkan penyakitnya. Namun perlu diingat, jangan sampai terkesan kalau anak diisolasi, berikan mainan yang dapat menghibur agar dia tidak bosan.

* Setiap anak yang sedang sakit butuh istirahat yang cukup. Anak campak pun demikian, berikan waktu beristirahat secara maksimal.

* Jangan biarkan bayi yang belum mendapat imunisasi campak berdekatan dengan penderita campak sampai penyakitnya benar-benar sembuh. Sangat mungkin virus campak akan menulari bayi.

* Jaga tubuh anak agar tetap bersih sehingga dia tetap merasa nyaman. Boleh saja anak dimandikan atau dilap seluruh tubuhnya. Pendapat yang mengatakan kalau anak campak tidak boleh dimandikan adalah keliru karena bila tubuhnya kotor dan berkeringat akan menimbulkan rasa lengket dan gatal luar biasa. Dorongan menggaruk kulit yang gatal bisa menimbulkan infeksi berupa bisul-bisul kecil bernanah. Gunakan sabun bayi yang tak terlalu merangsang kulit dan gosoklah kulitnya perlahan. Sehabis mandi, keringkan dan taburi dengan bedak salycyl talc.

* Selama anak sakit dan dalam pemulihan sebaiknya kita memisahkan peralatan makan dan mandinya, seperti piring, gelas, sendok, handuk, sprai dan pakaiannya. Hal ini untuk menghindari terjadinya penularan lewat kontak tak langsung.

PENGOBATAN SECARA SIMPTOMATIS

Rudy menjelaskan, pengobatan campak hanya bersifat simptomatis, yakni mengobati gejalanya saja. Misalnya, bila muncul demam maka yang diobati adalah gejala demamnya. Bila mengalami batuk maka obat batuk digunakan untuk meringankan batuknya. Demikian pula bila anak diare maka dokter akan memberikan obat antidiare. Pada beberapa anak yang berbakat kejang, gejala ini bisa timbul sehingga dokter akan menyiapkan obat antikejang. Sementara hingga saat ini, kata Rudy, belum ditemukan obat yang bisa langsung mengatasi virus campak tersebut.

Pengobatan gejala sangat penting dilakukan karena bila tidak ditangani dengan baik campak bisa sangat berbahaya. Bisa saja terjadi komplikasi terutama pada campak yang berat. Ciri-ciri campak berat, selain bercaknya di sekujur tubuh, gejalanya tidak membaik setelah diobati selama 1-2 hari. Sebaliknya, bila selama 1-2 hari pengobatan gejalanya sudah membaik, umumnya anak hanya menderita campak ringan.

Komplikasi yang terjadi biasanya berupa radang paru-paru (broncho pneumonia) dan radang otak (ensefalitis). Hal ini terjadi karena virus campak dapat menyebar melalui aliran darah ke jaringan tubuh lainnya. Komplikasi inilah yang umumnya paling sering menimbulkan kematian pada anak.

Untuk mengetahui apakah sudah terjadi komplikasi atau tidak biasanya ditunjukkan dengan tanda-tanda khas. Bila sudah terjadi ensefalitis biasanya terjadi kejang satu kali atau berulang, kesadaran anak menurun, dan suhu tubuhnya tinggi atau susah turun karena infeksinya sudah sampai ke otak.

Sedangkan radang paru-paru ditunjukkan dengan gejala batuk berdahak, pilek, dan sesak napas. Boleh dikatakan, kematian bukan ditimbulkan karena campak itu sendiri melainkan komplikasi yang terjadi. Umumnya hal ini akan terjadi pada anak yang kurang gizi dan memiliki daya tahan tubuh lemah.

BERBEDA DARI CAMPAK JERMAN

Campak biasa, kata Rudy, berbeda dari campak Jerman atau rubela. Campak Jerman umumnya memiliki dampak lebih ringan dan tidak fatal. Umumnya pun terjadi pada anak usia 5 sampai 14 tahun.

Memang gejalanya hampir sama dengan campak biasa, seperti flu, batuk, pilek dan demam tinggi. Yang membedakan, bercak merah pada rubela tidak timbul terlalu banyak dan tidak separah campak biasa, juga cepat menghilang dalam waktu 3 hari. Gejala lain, umumnya nafsu makan anak akan menurun karena terjadi pembengkakan pada limpa.

Justru kita harus lebih khawatir bila rubela menyerang wanita hamil karena virusnya bisa menular pada janin melalui plasenta. Bila janin tertular maka anak yang dilahirkan akan mengalami sindrom rubela kongenital dengan kelainan-kelainan, misalnya mata bayi mengalami katarak, tidak bisa mendengar, terjadi pengapuran di otak, juga banyak terjadi anak-anak tumbuh dengan keterbelakangan perkembangan.

Rudy menekankan, setiap anak perempuan harus mendapat vaksinasi rubela. Hal ini untuk mengantisipasi terjadinya rubela serta melindungi janin yang dikandungnya kelak. Tak hanya pada perempuan, vaksinasi rubela pun penting bagi kaum pria. Gunanya mencegah agar tidak terserang rubela dan menulari sang istri yang mungkin tengah hamil nanti.

Sumber :Irfan Hasuki. /Nakita


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Avoiding Stress In Marriage

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Stress in marriage indeed will often arise. But there are some things you can do to avoid it. This is it!

One way to avoid stress in marriage is to minimize the problems that arise. Here are some tips from Helium you can do.

1. Communication
Do not ever close the lines of communication, however angry you are on the couple. Closing the communication is your first step in destroying the marriage. Always talk to the partner what you feel. Give it a chance to understand your feelings.

2. Do not restrain
Married does not mean you have to rein in the activities the couple. Let him have his own life. Rather than curb, it's better on the environment membaurlah partner. Recognizing the working environment, hobbies and friends of the couple will make you more calm.

3. Compromise
In marriage, no more "me" or "you", only "we." Therefore, for everything, you also have to compromise with a partner. Do not get me wrong arise that make your relationship even messy.

4. Mutual respect
In the emotional conditions like anything, never demeaning your partner. Behavior degrading each other will only make the foundation of your home destroyed. A relationship will not be lasting if you and your partner no longer respect each other.

5. Make financial planning
Many studies have shown, the most popular cause of divorce is not adultery or difference values. Precisely the problem keuanganlah cause. To avoid conflict due to financial problems, bikinlah clear planning with the couple. The most important, you and your partner should be honest with each other, including in financial matters. That way, conflicts can be avoided.

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Menghindari Stres Dalam Pernikahan

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Stres dalam pernikahan memang akan sering muncul. Namun ada beberapa hal yang bisa Anda lakukan untuk menghindarinya. Ini dia!

Salah satu cara menghindari stres dalam pernikahan adalah dengan cara meminimalkan masalah yang timbul. Berikut beberapa kiat dari Helium yang bisa Anda lakukan.

1. Komunikasi
Jangan pernah menutup jalur komunikasi, bagaimanapun marahnya Anda pada pasangan. Menutup komunikasi adalah langkah pertama Anda dalam menghancurkan pernikahan. Selalu bicarakan pada pasangan apa yang Anda rasakan. Berikan ia kesempatan untuk mengerti perasaan Anda.

2. Jangan mengekang
Sudah berkeluarga bukan berarti Anda harus mengekang kegiatan pasangan. Biarkan ia memiliki hidupnya sendiri. Ketimbang mengekang, lebih baik membaurlah pada lingkungan pasangan. Mengenali lingkungan kerja, hobi dan sahabat pasangan akan membuat Anda lebih tenang.

3. Berkompromi
Dalam pernikahan, tak ada lagi "saya" atau "kamu", yang ada hanya "kita". Oleh karena itu, untuk segala hal, Anda juga harus berkompromi dengan pasangan. Jangan sampai timbul salah paham yang bikin hubungan Anda malah berantakan.

4. Saling menghargai
Dalam kondisi emosional seperti apa pun, jangan pernah merendahkan pasangan Anda. Perilaku saling merendahkan hanya akan membuat fondasi rumah tangga Anda hancur. Sebuah hubungan tak akan langgeng jika Anda dan pasangan tak lagi saling menghargai.

5. Membuat perencanaan keuangan
Banyak penelitian membuktikan, penyebab perceraian yang paling populer bukanlah perselingkuhan atau perbedaan nilai-nilai. Justru masalah keuanganlah penyebabnya. Untuk menghindari konflik karena masalah keuangan, bikinlah perencanaan yang jelas bersama pasangan. Yang paling utama, Anda dan pasangan harus saling jujur, termasuk dalam hal keuangan. Dengan begitu, konflik dapat dihindari.

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