REAL STORY OF SINGAPORE REBELLIOUS CHILD

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A True Story of the neighboring country Singapore a few decades ago are pretty horrendous to then Prime Minister, Lee Kwan Yew senior intervene and issue a decree about the elderly in Singapore.

It is said there are rich people there former successful businessman who resigned from dinia business when his wife died. Be it single parent trying to raise and educate both boys only to be able to independently and become a scholar.

Then after his only child was married, she asked her father for permission to live together in a luxury apartment and great father. And his father was happy to let the child live-in-law along with it. Imagine the minds of his parents is that the apartments are spacious and luxurious will not be lonely, especially if he has an grandchild. How happy the hearts of fathers to get together and share happiness with the children and the law.

In the beginning there is good communication between the Father-Son-son in law, which makes a very loving father's only child without the slightest hesitation mewariskankan entire property, including apartment they live, dibaliknamakan to his son's well-known through the notary there.

The years passed, as usual, a classic problem in the household, if the child in-law live on the premises with parents, some of the reasons why end on a day when they had a big fight in the end, her father's heart to expel them out of the apartment which he had inherited from his father.

Because the entire estate, apartments, shares, deposits, gold and cash was given to his son, then began the day he became a beggar on Orchard Rd. Imagine, the wealthy former businessman who is well known in Singapore, has suddenly become a beggar!

One day, accidentally crossed the former business friends first and give alms, he immediately recognized his father and asked him if he had his business friends. Of course, the father is not ashamed danmenjawab, maybe you're one person, he said. However, his suspicious and believe that parents are begging on Orchard Road are a few old friends who had no news story. Then, this friend reported this to other friends, and they finally came together person. All ex-close friend was immediately convinced that the old beggar was wealthy former businessman who once they know.

In front of his friends, the father with weeping, telling all the events that have been experienced. Thus, there was uproar in there, because all the parents there was very angry with the child who is not immoral. Uproar finally heard the news reached the ears of Lee Kwan Yew Senior PM.

PM Lee was furious and immediately called the rebellious son and daughter. They cursed and yelled out by PM Lee and PM Lee said "It is shameful that in Singapore there is the prodigal son like you".

Then PM Lee calling the notary and at that moment and testament was canceled by operation of law! And that is testament to the name of his son baliknama is torn by PM Lee. So that all property that has been passed back to the name of his father, even when the child sejal daughter was forbidden to enter his father's Apartment.

Mr Lee Kwan Yew was known as someone who was very devoted to his parents and respect for the elderly (seniors). So, that similar incidents do not happen again, Mr Lee issued a policy / Decree the "Prohibition of the parents for not mengwariskan property to anyone before they died. Then, for the elderly is still revered and respected until his death, he made policy a decree, namely that all State and private companies in Singapore to give employment to the elderly. order for the elderly is not dependent on the child-in-law and have their own income and they are very proud to give to his grandchildren angpao of the fruits of their own during the first years of work.

You should not be surprised if you go to the toilet at Changi Airport, Mall, Restaurant, Officer cleaning service is the elderly. So in addition to the elderly was also unhappy in old age they can still work, also they can socialize and healthy because a lot of moves. One again, as in other developed countries, PM Lee also gave a very good social education for children and young people there, that the work of cleaning the toilet, dining table etc is not a job diresto contemptible, so that the children they will be taught from childhood to know respect older people, whoever they are and whatever their profession.

Conversely, there are educated children to be wise and continue to maintain the respect and affection to his parents, regardless of the parents.

Although the parents were unable to sit or stand, or it may have forever lay on the bed, they should still honor him, how to care for.

They, as citizens of Singapore by Prime Minister Lee reminded to always remember when they were toddlers, they are the parents who clean their bodies of all forms of dirt, which is also sometimes feed and feed him with their own hands, and carried her even when they cry in the morning and take care when they are sick.

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11 Basic Rules Raising Children By Nanny Stella

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KOMPAS.com - loyal audience the show Nanny 911 will familiar with the name of Nanny Stella. This event has a lot of spectators because of the nanny who was involved to help the family achieve cooperation and turn chaos into calm in just 7 days.
Some time ago, Nanny Stella visited Jakarta to share the basic rule 11 (11 Commandments) in raising children. These rules he had made with one friend, Nanny Deb, who also participated in the event. Experiences for approximately 15 years of parenting, plus education for 2 years at the National Nursery Education Board made him the confidence to publish these 11 basic rules. According to him, this basic rule cross age, cross country, not situational, not emotional, absolute, and is made to avoid bad actions that could have happened in the future.
Here are the 11 rules, which delivered Nanny Stella in his seminar on JITEC, Mangga Dua Square, Jakarta, Saturday (7/12/09) ago.
Be consistent
No means no. Yes, it means yes. If you want to impose "timeout" to your child, do it. Do not stop or cancel it just because there are distractions.
Every action has consequences
Good behavior rewarded. Bad behavior punished. Give an explanation if there is a reward for something good that he did, or punishment if he made a mistake. For example, you and your family going on vacation to a nice vacation spot if the child can reach great numbers in the report. Or, if you are lazy to learn, he will live classroom.
Say what you want
Think before you speak, or feel the consequences. If the child has violated your command, then the punishment must also be clear, and you have to do the punishment. If you violate your own reward system, then the child will get used to ignore the punishment that you set for other things. Get ready, because this would lead to dissent.
Parents work together as a team
If you and your partner do not mutually agree on one thing, your child will not know whom to listen. The result, he would not listen to anybody. This not only applies to you and your partner, but also for all those who are in places you raise the child. Whether it's nanny, mother-father, grandparents, uncles, aunts, all those involved with the child. Do not let anyone have the words opposite to each other, because the child can result in confusion and even worse for him.
Do not promise if it can not be observed
If you promise something to the child, make sure the promise is fulfilled. If you could not give promise to the children, better not say. Because of broken promises can be a very painful thing for the child.
Listen to your kids
Acknowledge their feelings. Say, "I understand", but said earnestly, then take the time to really listen to you. Because they need someone who can and want to listen to their complaints. If they lean to the wrong person, the result could be no right thing for him. Try to be their friend and listen to what they feel. Feel the pleasure of the people who understand their closest.
Set routines
Routine makes your child feel secure and give structure to the time that they have. But not necessarily have to follow the schedule in accordance hours. "Routines are important, so that the children learned what they would do next. No need on an hourly, based routines can. In this way they learn order. For example, after playing in the afternoon, they bathe, eat dinner, brush your teeth , wash your feet, and sleep, "said Nanny Stella.
The respect goes both ways
If you do not respect your kids, they will not respect you. The statute "treat others as you want to be treated". Honor them by providing what they are entitled to without delay, as well as listen to what they want to say.
Positive reinforcement is better than negative reinforcement
Flattery, praise, and pride far more useful than being bitchy, negative, and ignored. It's better to say positive reinforcement to communicate your intentions, rather than pointing to a label adjectives. For example, "I'm glad to see the efforts you improve your math score" better than, "You're smart. Value of Mathematics you've got 1 point in the report card". When you label a point, he will stop there and not trying to develop.
Behavior are universal
Good behavior accepted by anyone. Model him to say "thank you, please, or excuse" to those that intersect. Wherever, polite always necessary. Teach good manners to him through your actions. Children like a blank tape to record whatever they see of the people, or what he witnessed. So, give him the best examples.
Define your role as a parent
It's not your job to make kids stick to you. Your task is to prepare children to face the outside world, and let her be herself. Do not always stick and help her with everything. Occasionally he had to learn to deal with the pain, sense of failure, also can not think. This is important so that he could find a way to overcome the limitations
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