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ASI> 1 year old ugly and not nutritious?!
Often it was thought that milk was bad reply-old boy was 1 year old to the top? Well especially if children aged 2 years, really is?Opinion that the milk is bad> 1 year old is not at all true.Milk remains rich in nutrients. According to research in the article Dewey KG"Nutrition, Growth, and Complementary Feeding of the Breastfed Infant".Pediatric Clinics of North American. February 2001; 48 (1)), that feeding> 1 year old rich in nutrients:
"In the second year (12-23 months), milk contains:
- 43% of protein requirements;
- 36% of calcium requirements;
- 75% of vitamin A requirements;
- 60% of vitamin C requirements ".

This does not include anti-infective / anti-germ indwelling and always in ASI wrote very remarkable benefits to protect infants from various disease. So there was no term bad milk.Nutritional content of breast milk is very flexible according to the needs of the child.Its composition is never the same and always changing even every minute.
It's completely different content dg yg's formula-that's all.Until now, many thought that if a child is breastfed children continue later weaning difficult. Or much too reply would be considered the child not independent.
Is this? Until now there is no / no specific research prove that there is a relationship between the age of the child is weaned independence with child. The fact that there are often people confuse / mix parent closeness of the child, the spoiled or less independent. Whether closeness with parents similar to spoiled? Not necessarily right? Is not psychologically at the age of the child they will actually do need the closeness reply with good parents. Meanwhile, many children are weaned at the age of > 1 or 2 year old child who remains independent. So back again to
definition of independent is how.
* The best way to wean the child
*
How to wean a good & proper reply.There is no special way of weaning.Some lactation experts give tips for weaning process running dg
either:
1. * Perform a slow weaning process .*
Ex. Gradually reduce the frequency of feeding. Typically 4 x a day then gradually changed 3 times a day continued until the end stop.
* 2. Distract the child / children occupied antything else .*
can read books to children, playing, singing,etc.. Until children forget during feeding.
1. * Key: good communication Bina dg children .*
Remember, how small the age of the child, the child still understand and have the ability for people to understand kata2 of the environment.
1. * Avoid weaning when the child was unwell or in distress,upset, angry .*
* *
1. * Avoid feeding weaning the child from other objects such as pacifiers, bottles milk, pillows, etc.*
* * Usually this much needed role as a father figure who
complements the mother. Once again communication bina dg kids into shape.
1. * Avoid sudden weaning / direct *.
2. * Finally, COMMUNICATION, communication and communication .*Encourage children to communicate and discuss. Dg explain both the reasons and weaning step-be done.Moreover, without any communication of the child dg. This can hurt the child.
Do not let the child feel that the mother manyapih dg hate, etc.Provision of bitter herbs, for not forcing the child to nurse at her mother, etc.may damage the bonding or bond formed reply so far in process breastfeeding. Very, very unfortunate if this happens. Because the beautiful bond they will be marred by a sudden weaning process earlier.If the process of weaning dg done well, then we will grow kidsa problem child smart, healthy and good morals. Because the mother
educating through lactation and weaning period dg love.
* (Luluk Lely Soraya I was a mother of a daughter, observer ASI & health problems family, Lactivist, and guest speaker at OASE section RAS FM 95.5 every Saturday morning 9-10 pkl) .*
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* Written-free & summarized from various sources (Lalecheleague, WHO, breastfeeding. Com) by Luluk Lely Soraya Ichwan *
* Weaning *
Often so many parents question "When are the right age to weaning the child from his mother during breastfeeding? "Then how do I weaning salt of the earth? Actually what is meant word "wean"itself?
Weaning is the process of breastfeeding cessation are gradually or all at once. The process can be caused by that cessation of feeding the child from his mother. Or it can also stop the mother to breastfeed her child. Or it could be both. So could dg variety of reasons. Early weaning is an emotional experience for the mother, the child also father. Since the last 3 (Mother-Father-Son) is the bond of unity reply not be forgotten. Why fathers are also involved? Because the father also played and provides its own influence in the process of breastfeeding.
* When children must be weaned *
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Many also wrote asking when should the child was weaned from his mother, or when
time to wean.
* Actually, there are no special provisions or special restrictions when children should
weaned. *

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So there is no rule that at that age a child should be weaned from his mother. According to WHO, during breastfeeding exclusively given the first 6 months, then recommended still given after 6 months together dg food addition to the age of 2 years or MORE. So there is no limit on age.
This means there is no rule that fits the age of 2 year old child should be weaned from her mother.
Many parents wean their children at the age of 1 th-2th, there is also the age of 3 newly weaned her child in some even wrote 4 years of age.
* ASI> 1th not nutritious? *
Until when the process / period of breastfeeding can continue?The answer: During the three parties (the mother-son-father) is still wanting.That means that if the mother / son / father had not wanted,the weaning process can be done.For example, the mother had a deadine (time limits) that separate at the age of so the child should be weaned but still enjoy the mother & the child also still want, then do not need to wean. In essence, select timing most convenient for all parties.
* Source articles: *
· WHO. 2004. "Infant feeding in emergencies: A guide for mothers'(www.who.int)
· Bonyata Kelly, BS, IBCLC "Extended Breastfeeding Fact Sheet" (http://www.kellymom .com / bf / bfextend ed / EBF-benefits. html)
· Jack Newman, MD, FRCPC. "Breastfeed a Toddler-Why on Earth? "(http://www.kellymom .com / Newman / bf_toddler_ 01-03.html)
from: http://lsoraya. multiply. com / journal / item / 2 /
Megawati, hypnobirthing

*MENYAPIH DENGAN CINTA (WEANING WITH LOVE)*

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*Ditulis bebas & dirangkum dari berbagai sumber (Lalecheleague, WHO,breastfeeding. com) oleh Luluk Lely Soraya Ichwan*

*Menyapih*

Sering jadi pertanyaan banyak orang tua "Kapan sih usia yang tepat untuk
menyapih anak dari masa menyusu pada ibunya ?" Kemudian bagaimana cara
menyapih yg terbaik ? Sebetulnya apa sih yang dimaksud dg kata “menyapih”
itu sendiri ?

Menyapih adalah suatu proses berhentinya masa menyusui secara
berangsur-angsur atau sekaligus. Proses tsb dapat disebabkan oleh
berhentinya sang anak dari menyusu pada ibunya. Atau bisa juga berhentinya
sang ibu untuk menyusui anaknya.

Atau bisa juga keduanya. Jadi bisa dg berbagai alasan.

Masa menyapih ini merupakan pengalaman emosional bagi sang ibu, anak juga
sang ayah. Karena 3 pihak tadi (Ibu-Ayah-Anak) merupakan ikatan kesatuan yg
gak boleh dilupakan. Kenapa ayah juga terlibat ? Karena ayah juga berperan
dan memberikan pengaruh tersendiri dalam proses menyusui.

*Kapan anak harus disapih *

* *

Banyak yg bertanya juga kapan sebaiknya anak disapih dari ibunya, atau kapan
waktu yang tepat untuk menyapih.

*Sebetulnya tidak ada ketentuan khusus atau batasan khusus kapan anak harus
disapih. *

* *

Jadi tidak ada aturan bahwa pada umur sekian anak harus disapih dari ibunya.

Menurut WHO, masa pemberian ASI diberikan secara eksklusif 6 bulan pertama,
kemudian dianjurkan tetap diberikan setelah 6 bulan berdampingan dg makanan
tambahan hingga umur 2 th atau LEBIH. Jadi tidak ada batasan di umur berapa.
Ini artinya tidak ada aturan bahwa pas pada umur 2 th anak harus disapih
dari ibunya.

Banyak orang tua menyapih anaknya pada umur 1 th-2th, ada juga yg umur 3
tahun anaknya baru disapih bahkan ada juga yg umur 4 th.

*ASI > 1th tidak bergizi ?*

Sampai kapan proses / masa menyusui dapat dilanjutkan ?

Jawabannya : Selama ketiga pihak (ibu-anak-ayah) masih menginginkan.

Itu artinya jika sang ibu / sang anak / sang ayah sudah tidak menginginkan,
maka proses menyapih dapat dilakukan.

Misalnya, sang ibu punya deadine (batas waktu) tersendiri bahwa pada umur
sekian si anak harus disapih tetapi sang ibu masih enjoy & sang anak juga
masih menginginkan, maka tidak perlu disapih. Intinya, pilih timing yg
paling nyaman untuk semua pihak.

ASI > 1 th jelek dan tidak bergizi ?!

Sering ada anggapan bahwa ASI itu sudah jelek kalo anak sudah berusia 1 th
ke atas ? Nah apalagi jika anak berusia 2 th, betulkah ini?

Opini bahwa ASI itu jelek > 1 th ternyata sama sekali tidak benar.

ASI tetap kaya akan nutrisi. Menurut penelitian Dewey KG dalam artikel
"Nutrition, Growth, and Complementary Feeding of the Breastfed Infant".
Pediatric Clinics of North American. February 2001;48(1)), bahwa ASI > 1 th
kaya akan nutrisi :

“In the second year (12-23 months), ASI mengandung :

- 43% of protein requirements;
- 36% of calcium requirements;
- 75% of vitamin A requirements;
- 60% of vitamin C requirements” .

Ini belum termasuk zat anti infeksi/anti kuman yg tetap dan selalu ada dalam
ASI yg manfaatnya sangat luarbiasa untuk melindungi bayi dari berbagai
penyakit.

Jadi tidak pernah ada istilah ASI jelek.

Kandungan gizi ASI itu sangat fleksibel sesuai kebutuhan sang anak.

Komposisinya tidak pernah sama dan selalu berubah bahkan tiap menit.

Ini berbeda sama sekali dg kandungan susu formula yg itu-itu saja.

Sampai saat ini banyak anggapan bahwa jika anak disusui terus nantinya anak
susah disapihnya. Atau banyak juga yg menganggap anak akan jadi tidak
mandiri.
Benarkah hal ini ? Hingga saat ini tidak ada / belum ada penelitian khusus
yg membuktikan bahwa ada hubungan antara usia anak disapih dg kemandirian
anak. Kenyataan yang ada sering sekali orang merancukan / mencampuradukkan
kedekatan orang tua dg si anak,dengan manja atau kurang mandiri. Apakah
kedekatan dengan orang tua sama dengan manja? Belum tentu kan ? Bukankah
secara psikologis pada usia tsb anak justru memang membutuhkan kedekatan yg
bagus dg orangtuanya. Sementara itu banyak sekali anak yang disapih di usia
>1 atau 2 th tetap menjadi anak yang mandiri. Jadi kembalikan lagi ke
definisi mandiri itu bagaimana.

*Cara terbaik menyapih anak

*

Cara menyapih yg baik & tepat.

Tidak ada cara khusus dalam menyapih.

Beberapa ahli laktasi memberikan tips-tips agar proses menyapih berjalan dg
baik :

1. *Lakukan proses menyapih secara perlahan.*

Mis. Mengurangi secara bertahap frekuensi menyusu. Biasanya 4 x
sehari maka secara perlahan diubah 3 x sehari terus hingga akhirnya
berhenti.

*2. Alihkan perhatian anak / sibukkan anak dg hal lain.*

Bisa dg membacakan buku ke anak, bermain, bernyanyi,
dsb. Hingga
anak melupakan saat menyusu.

1. *Kunci utama : Bina komunikasi yang baik dg anak.*

Ingat, seberapa kecil usia anak, anak tetap mengerti dan
memiliki kemampuan utk mengerti kata2 dari orang di lingkungannya.

1. *Hindari menyapih saat anak sedang tidak sehat atau sedang sedih,
kesal, marah.*

* *

1. *Hindari menyapih anak dari menyusu ke benda lain spt empeng, botol
susu, bantal, dsb.*

* *Biasanya disini peran ayah sangat dibutuhkan sbg figur yang
melengkapi sang ibu. Sekali lagi bina komunikasi yg baik dg anak.

1. *Hindari menyapih secara mendadak/langsung* .
2. *Terakhir, KOMUNIKASI, komunikasi dan komunikasi.*

Ajaklah anak berkomunikasi dan berdiskusi. Jelaskan dg baik alasan dan
langkah menyapih yg akan dilakukan.

Apalagi tanpa komunikasi apapun dg si anak. Ini dapat menyakitkan hati sang
anak.

Jangan sampai anak merasa bahwa dg manyapih sang ibu membencinya, dsb.

Pemberian jamu pahit, memaksa anak utk tidak menyusu pada ibunya, dsbnya
dapat merusak bonding atau ikatan batin yg terbentuk sejauh ini dalam
proses

menyusui. Amat sangat disayangkan jika hal ini terjadi. Karena ikatan indah
tsb ternodai akibat proses menyapih secara mendadak tadi.

Jika proses penyapihan dilakukan dg baik, maka anak2 kita akan tumbuh
menjadi anak yg cerdas, sehat dan berakhlak baik. Karena sang ibu
mendidiknya melalui masa menyusui dan masa menyapih dg cinta.

*(Luluk Lely Soraya I adalah seorang ibu dari seorang putri, pemerhati
masalah ASI & kesehatan keluarga, Lactivist, dan narasumber rubrik OASE di
RAS FM 95.5 tiap sabtu pkl 9-10 pagi).*

* *

*Sumber artikel :*

· WHO. 2004. ”Infant Feeding in emergencies : A guide for mothers”
(www.who.int)

· Kelly Bonyata, BS, IBCLC ”Extended Breastfeeding Fact Sheet” (
http://www.kellymom .com/bf/bfextend ed/ebf-benefits. html)<http://www.kellymom .com/bf/bfextend ed/ebf-benefits. html>

· Jack Newman, MD, FRCPC. ”Breastfeed a Toddler—Why on Earth? ” (
http://www.kellymom .com/newman/ bf_toddler_ 01-03.html)

· Lalecheleague International, ”What are the benefits of
breastfeeding my toddler?” (
http://www.lalechel eague.org/ FAQ/advantagetod dler.html)<http://www.lalechel eague.org/ FAQ/advantagetod dler.html

dari: http://lsoraya. multiply. com/journal/ item/2/
megawati,Hypnobirthing

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