HEALTHY LIFE STYLE

Talking with children is not an easy matter. Even for parents of children even at times find it difficult to talk with children. For those of you who frequently watch Nanny 911 series must have witnessed the difficulties parents to bring their children to speak. How Nanny Deb and Nanny Stella talking with children?

Here are their tips for the book Nanny 911:

1. If you want to make sure your children follow their (or when I want to teach discipline), lower your body as high as a child. Sitting or kneeling, choose a convenient for you.

2. Face-to-eye. This is an important part. If necessary, gently palingkan his face so he looked directly to you.

3. If the child is very angry, rub her back or stomach. This is a form of stroke recognition. No need to pull or hold her by force to be adjacent to it, unless the child is absolutely hysterical and need to be calmed. If the child is hysterical, let him calm down before you talk to. Let him catch his breath.

4. Change the tone of voice to be firm but gentle. Your voice is naturally up and down when you're happy or having fun.

5. Give words to children to help the flow of conversation. Help children who are still very small with messengers to follow your words and encourage him to try. For children who are older, you can open a conversation with an idea, like, "You seem upset."

6. Repeat back what the child said. It shows that you are actually listening. It also gives you time to rearrange your mind.

7. Do not interrupt the child when she was told. Let him say what was on his mind. Tell him that you understand. When your turn comes, they will stop talking and listen to you. If they interrupt you, saying, "Mama understands, but let Mama finished first, then we can talk."

8. Even if your heart is full of turmoil, always try to remain calm.

Source website female.kompas.com/read/2011/02/16/23424771/Teknik.Dasar. Berbicara. dengan.Anak#

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Berbicara dengan anak bukan perkara mudah. Bahkan bagi orangtua anak sekalipun ada kalanya merasa kesulitan berbicara dengan anak. Bagi Anda yang sering menyaksikan serial Nanny 911 pasti pernah menyaksikan kesulitan orangtua untuk mengajak anaknya berbicara. Bagaimana cara Nanny Deb dan Nanny Stella berbicara dengan anak?

Begini tips yang mereka bagi dalam buku Nanny 911:

1. Apabila Anda ingin memastikan anak mengikuti kemauan Anda (atau saat ingin mengajarkan disiplin), turunkan tubuh Anda setinggi anak. Duduk atau berlutut, pilih yang nyaman untuk Anda.

2. Tatap matanya. Ini adalah bagian penting. Jika perlu, dengan lembut palingkan wajahnya agar ia menatap langsung kepada Anda.

3. Jika si anak sangat marah, usap punggung atau perutnya. Ini adalah bentuk usapan pengakuan. Tak perlu menarik atau memeluknya dengan paksa agar berdekatan dengannya, kecuali si anak benar-benar histeris dan perlu ditenangkan. Jika anak histeris, biarkan ia tenang dulu sebelum diajak bicara. Suruh ia mengatur napasnya.

4. Ubah nada suara agar menjadi tegas tetapi lembut. Suara Anda secara alami naik turun ketika sedang bahagia atau sedang bersenang-senang.

5. Beri kata-kata kepada anak untuk membantu mengalirnya percakapan. Bantu anak yang masih sangat kecil dengan suruhan mengikuti kata-kata Anda dan dorong ia mencoba. Untuk anak-anak yang sudah besar, Anda bisa membuka percakapan dengan ide, seperti, "Kamu sepertinya sedang kesal."

6. Ulangi kembali apa yang dikatakan anak. Ini menunjukkan bahwa Anda benar-benar mendengarkan. Ini juga memberi Anda waktu untuk mengatur ulang pikiran Anda.

7. Jangan menyela si anak saat sedang bercerita. Biarkan ia mengutarakan apa yang ada di benaknya. Katakan padanya bahwa Anda mengerti. Ketika giliran Anda tiba, mereka akan berhenti berbicara dan mendengarkan Anda. Kalau mereka menyela Anda, katakan, "Mama mengerti, tetapi biarkan Mama selesai bicara dulu, setelah itu kami bisa bicara."

8. Biarpun hati Anda penuh gejolak, upayakan selalu tetap tenang.