REAL STORY OF SINGAPORE REBELLIOUS CHILD

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A True Story of the neighboring country Singapore a few decades ago are pretty horrendous to then Prime Minister, Lee Kwan Yew senior intervene and issue a decree about the elderly in Singapore.

It is said there are rich people there former successful businessman who resigned from dinia business when his wife died. Be it single parent trying to raise and educate both boys only to be able to independently and become a scholar.

Then after his only child was married, she asked her father for permission to live together in a luxury apartment and great father. And his father was happy to let the child live-in-law along with it. Imagine the minds of his parents is that the apartments are spacious and luxurious will not be lonely, especially if he has an grandchild. How happy the hearts of fathers to get together and share happiness with the children and the law.

In the beginning there is good communication between the Father-Son-son in law, which makes a very loving father's only child without the slightest hesitation mewariskankan entire property, including apartment they live, dibaliknamakan to his son's well-known through the notary there.

The years passed, as usual, a classic problem in the household, if the child in-law live on the premises with parents, some of the reasons why end on a day when they had a big fight in the end, her father's heart to expel them out of the apartment which he had inherited from his father.

Because the entire estate, apartments, shares, deposits, gold and cash was given to his son, then began the day he became a beggar on Orchard Rd. Imagine, the wealthy former businessman who is well known in Singapore, has suddenly become a beggar!

One day, accidentally crossed the former business friends first and give alms, he immediately recognized his father and asked him if he had his business friends. Of course, the father is not ashamed danmenjawab, maybe you're one person, he said. However, his suspicious and believe that parents are begging on Orchard Road are a few old friends who had no news story. Then, this friend reported this to other friends, and they finally came together person. All ex-close friend was immediately convinced that the old beggar was wealthy former businessman who once they know.

In front of his friends, the father with weeping, telling all the events that have been experienced. Thus, there was uproar in there, because all the parents there was very angry with the child who is not immoral. Uproar finally heard the news reached the ears of Lee Kwan Yew Senior PM.

PM Lee was furious and immediately called the rebellious son and daughter. They cursed and yelled out by PM Lee and PM Lee said "It is shameful that in Singapore there is the prodigal son like you".

Then PM Lee calling the notary and at that moment and testament was canceled by operation of law! And that is testament to the name of his son baliknama is torn by PM Lee. So that all property that has been passed back to the name of his father, even when the child sejal daughter was forbidden to enter his father's Apartment.

Mr Lee Kwan Yew was known as someone who was very devoted to his parents and respect for the elderly (seniors). So, that similar incidents do not happen again, Mr Lee issued a policy / Decree the "Prohibition of the parents for not mengwariskan property to anyone before they died. Then, for the elderly is still revered and respected until his death, he made policy a decree, namely that all State and private companies in Singapore to give employment to the elderly. order for the elderly is not dependent on the child-in-law and have their own income and they are very proud to give to his grandchildren angpao of the fruits of their own during the first years of work.

You should not be surprised if you go to the toilet at Changi Airport, Mall, Restaurant, Officer cleaning service is the elderly. So in addition to the elderly was also unhappy in old age they can still work, also they can socialize and healthy because a lot of moves. One again, as in other developed countries, PM Lee also gave a very good social education for children and young people there, that the work of cleaning the toilet, dining table etc is not a job diresto contemptible, so that the children they will be taught from childhood to know respect older people, whoever they are and whatever their profession.

Conversely, there are educated children to be wise and continue to maintain the respect and affection to his parents, regardless of the parents.

Although the parents were unable to sit or stand, or it may have forever lay on the bed, they should still honor him, how to care for.

They, as citizens of Singapore by Prime Minister Lee reminded to always remember when they were toddlers, they are the parents who clean their bodies of all forms of dirt, which is also sometimes feed and feed him with their own hands, and carried her even when they cry in the morning and take care when they are sick.

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KISAH NYATA ANAK DURHAKA DARI SINGAPURA

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Sebuah Kisah Nyata dari Negeri tetangga Singapura beberapa dekade lalu yang cukup menghebohkan hingga Perdana Menteri saat itu, Lee Kwan Yew senior turun tangan dan mengeluarkan dekrit tentang orang lansia di Singapura.

Dikisahkan ada orang kaya raya di sana mantan Pengusaha sukses yang mengundurkan diri dari dunia bisnis ketika istrinya meninggal dunia. Jadilah ia single parent yang berusaha membesarkan dan mendidik dengan baik anak laki-laki satu-satunya hingga mampu mandiri dan menjadi seorang Sarjana.

Kemudian setelah anak tunggalnya tersebut menikah, ia minta ijin kepada ayahnya untuk tinggal bersama di Apartemen Ayahnya yang mewah dan besar. Dan ayahnya pun dengan senang hati mengijinkan anak menantunya tinggal bersama-sama dengannya. Terbayang dibenak orangtua tersebut bahwa apartemen nya yang luas dan mewah tersebut tidak akan sepi, terlebih jika ia mempunya cucu. Betapa bahagianya hati bapak tersebut bisa berkumpul dan membagi kebahagiaan dengan anak dan menantunya.

Pada mulanya terjadi komunikasi yang sangat baik antara Ayah-Anak-Menantu yang membuat Ayahnya yang sangat mencintai anak tunggalnya itu tersebut tanpa sedikitpun ragu-ragu mewariskankan seluruh harta kekayaan termasuk apartment yang mereka tinggali, dibaliknamakan ke anaknya itu melalui Notaris terkenal di sana.

Tahun-tahun berlalu, seperti biasa, masalah klasik dalam rumah tangga, jika anak menantu tinggal seatap dengan orang tua, entah sebab mengapa akhirnya pada suatu hari mereka bertengkar hebat yang pada akhirnya, anaknya tega mengusir sang Ayah keluar dari apartment mereka yang ia warisi dari Ayahnya.

Karena seluruh hartanya, Apartemen, Saham, Deposito, Emas dan uang tunai sudah diberikan kepada anaknya, maka mulai hari itu dia menjadi pengemis di Orchard Rd. Bayangkan, orang kaya mantan pebisnis yang cukup terkenal di Singapura tersebut, tiba-tiba menjadi pengemis!

Suatu hari, tanpa disengaja melintas mantan teman bisnisnya dulu dan memberikan sedekah, dia langsung mengenali si ayah ini dan menanyakan kepadanya, apakah ia teman bisnisnya dulu. Tentu saja, si ayah malu danmenjawab bukan, mungkin Anda salah orang, katanya. Akan tetapi temannya curiga dan yakin, bahwa orang tua yang mengemis di Orchad Road itu adalah temannya yang sudah beberapa lama tidak ada kabar beritanya. Kemudian, temannya ini mengabarkan hal ini kepada teman-temannya yang lain, dan mereka akhirnya bersama-sama mendatangi orang tersebut. Semua mantan sahabat karibnya tersebut langsung yakin bahwa pengemis tua itu adalah Mantan pebisnis kaya yang dulu mereka kenal.

Dihadapan para sahabatnya, si ayah dengan menangis tersedu-sedu, menceritakan semua kejadian yang sudah dialaminya. Maka, terjadilah kegemparan di sana, karena semua orangtua di sana merasa sangat marah terhadap anak yang sangat tidak bermoral itu.

Kegemparan berita tersebut akhirnya terdengar sampai ke telinga PM Lee Kwan Yew Senior.

PM Lee sangat marah dan langsung memanggil anak dan menantu durhaka tersebut. Mereka dimaki-maki dan dimarahi habis-habisan oleh PM Lee dan PM Lee mengatakan "Sungguh sangat memalukan bahwa di Singapura ada anak durhaka seperti kalian" .

Lalu PM Lee memanggil sang Notaris dan saat itu juga surat warisan itu dibatalkan demi hukum! Dan surat warisan yang sudah baliknama ke atas nama anaknya tersebut disobek-sobek oleh PM Lee. Sehingga semua harta milik yang sudah diwariskan tersebut kembali ke atas nama Ayahnya, bahkan sejal saat itu anak menantu itu dilarang masuk ke Apartment ayahnya.

Mr Lee Kwan Yew ini ternyata terkenal sebagai orang yang sangat berbakti kepada orangtuanya dan menghargai para lanjut usia (lansia). Sehingga, agar kejadian serupa tidak terulang lagi, Mr Lee mengeluarkan Kebijakan / Dekrit yaitu "Larangan kepada para orangtua untuk tidak mengwariskan harta bendanya kepada siapapun sebelum mereka meninggal. Kemudian, agar para lansia itu tetap dihormati dan dihargai hingga akhir hayatnya, maka dia buat Kebijakan berupa Dekrit lagi, yaitu agar semua Perusahaan Negara dan swasta di Singapura memberi pekerjaan kepada para lansia. Agar para lansia ini tidak tergantung kepada anak menantunya dan mempunyai penghasilan sendiri dan mereka sangat bangga bisa memberi angpao kepada cucu-cucunya dari hasil keringat mereka sendiri selama 1 tahun bekerja.

Anda tidak perlu heran jika Anda pergi ke Toilet di Changi Airport, Mall, Restaurant, Petugas cleaning service adalah para lansia. Jadi selain para lansia itu juga bahagia karena di usia tua mereka masih bisa bekerja, juga mereka bisa bersosialisasi dan sehat karena banyak bergerak. Satu lagi sebagaimana di negeri maju lainnya, PM Lee juga memberikan pendidikan sosial yang sangat bagus buat anak-anak dan remaja di sana, bahwa pekerjaan membersihkan toilet, meja makan diresto dsbnya itu bukan pekerjaan hina, sehingga anak-anak tsb dari kecil diajarkan untuk tahu menghargai orang yang lebih tua, siapapun mereka dan apapun profesinya.

Sebaliknya, Anak di sana dididik menjadi bijak dan terus memelihara rasa hormat dan sayang kepada orangtuanya, apapun kondisi orangtuanya.

Meskipun orangtua mereka sudah tidak sanggup duduk atau berdiri,atau mungkin sudah selamanya terbaring diatas tempat tidur, mereka harus tetap menghormatinya dengan cara merawatnya.

Mereka, warganegara Singapura seolah diingatkan oleh PM Lee agar selalu mengenang saat mereka masih balita, orangtua merekalah yang membersihkan tubuh mereka dari semua bentuk kotoran, juga yang memberi makan dan kadang menyuapinya dengan tangan mereka sendiri, dan menggendongnya kala mereka menangis meski dini hari dan merawatnya ketika mereka sakit.

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