Trick So Mother's More Relaxed

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Being a parent is not an easy job. You lose time to rest, time to relax with her husband, and certainly the time to socialize. When you feel so stressed with work at the office, and must face a messy house, reasonable if you become angry.

However, there are ways to defuse your anger. You can try to become a mother is more relaxed in the face of children. Mothers who are not always provoked at the sight of their mischief, and how smart they make your house a mess. You can, make your home more peaceful and enjoyable. It takes hard work for it, but some of the following ways can be inspiration for you.

1. Within a day, try to laugh with the kids. Whether by ulahnya laugh, or tease them with your act childish.

2. Sleep as you can. Usually, when accompanying children nap (or sleep at night), the mother so go to sleep. Just enjoy this moment, especially when accompanied him to sleep at night. Never mind lah, once in a while let the dirty dishes on the dinner table.

3. When you're stressed at work, and the youngest a tantrum, or you forgot to prepare his lunch, you will probably spew your resentment at the eldest. It is not fair for him. To avoid this confusion, prepare all the needs of children the night before.

4. Indulge yourself. Occasionally, irritation or fatigue to treat you, find you guilty pleasure. Either read the novel, the show went to sale at the mall, or eat your favorite cheese cake. Remember, only occasionally.

5. When children throw tantrums, you may be accustomed to saying, "Nah should", or "Never". Try to change those words with "Yes". For example, "Yes, we'll to the game when you're done eating," instead of, "If you eat baseball, our baseball left."

6. Like when studying at school, kids would think if something is said over and over again. For example, "Come, eat while sitting," or, "watching it when you're learning, yes," or, "By the clear, she wants what you understand baseball."

7. Making the ban only for something that is important. You do not need to be upset just because your child choose the color red shirt and orange shorts. Or, he chose to sleep with the head positioned at the foot of the bed. Or, adjust the way so that his face not covered eating affected food.

8. When you are so tired when caring for children, you may be thinking, "When he got older, I no longer need to feed him." Or, you do not need to wash your diapers every day dozens. But, believe me, when all it is passed (so quickly), you will definitely miss the days are exhausting.

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Trik Jadi Ibu yang Lebih Santai

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Menjadi orangtua memang bukan pekerjaan yang mudah. Anda kehilangan waktu untuk beristirahat, waktu untuk bersantai bersama suami, dan tentunya waktu untuk bersosialisasi. Ketika Anda merasa begitu stres dengan pekerjaan di kantor, dan harus menghadapi rumah yang berantakan, wajar jika Anda menjadi murka.

Namun, selalu ada cara untuk meredakan kemurkaan Anda. Anda bisa mencoba menjadi ibu yang lebih rileks saat menghadapi anak-anak. Ibu yang tidak selalu terpancing saat melihat kenakalan mereka, dan betapa pintar mereka membuat rumah Anda kacau-balau. Anda bisa kok, membuat rumah Anda lebih tenang dan menyenangkan. Butuh kerja keras untuk itu, namun beberapa cara berikut bisa menjadi inspirasi bagi Anda.

1. Dalam sehari, berusahalah untuk tertawa bersama anak-anak. Entah dengan menertawakan ulahnya, atau goda mereka dengan ulah Anda yang kekanak-kanakan.

2. Tidurlah semampu Anda. Biasanya, ketika menemani anak tidur siang (atau tidur malam), si ibu jadi ikut tidur. Nikmati saja momen ini, terutama ketika menemaninya tidur malam. Tak apa lah, sesekali membiarkan piring kotor di meja makan.

3. Ketika Anda sedang stres di kantor, dan si bungsu membuat ulah, atau Anda lupa menyiapkan bekalnya, Anda mungkin akan memuntahkan kekesalan Anda pada si sulung. Hal ini tidak adil untuknya. Untuk menghindari kekacauan ini, siapkan semua keperluan anak-anak malam sebelumnya.

4. Manjakan diri Anda. Sesekali, untuk mengobati kekesalan atau kelelahan Anda, temukan guilty pleasure Anda. Entah membaca novel picisan, mendatangi acara sale di mal, atau menyantap cheese cake kegemaran Anda. Ingat, hanya sesekali.

5. Ketika anak membuat ulah, Anda mungkin akan terbiasa mengatakan, "Enggak boleh", atau "Jangan". Coba ubah kata-kata tersebut dengan "Ya". Contohnya, “Ya, nanti kita ke tempat permainan kalau kamu sudah selesai makan", dan bukannya, "Kalau kamu enggak makan, kita enggak berangkat".

6. Seperti saat belajar di sekolah, anak-anak akan menurut jika sesuatu dikatakan berulang-ulang. Misalnya, "Ayo, makannya sambil duduk", atau, "Nontonnya nanti kalau sudah belajar, ya", atau, "Ngomong yang jelas, Ibu enggak ngerti kamu maunya apa".

7. Membuat larangan hanya untuk sesuatu yang memang penting. Anda tidak perlu kesal hanya karena anak memilih kaus warna merah dan celana pendek oranye. Atau, ia memilih tidur dengan kepala pada posisi kaki di tempat tidur. Atau, mengatur cara makannya supaya wajahnya tidak belepotan terkena makanan.

8. Ketika Anda begitu lelah saat mengasuh anak, mungkin Anda akan berpikir, "Nanti kalau dia sudah lebih besar, saya tak perlu lagi menyuapinya." Atau, Anda tak perlu mencuci berlusin popok setiap hari. Namun, percayalah, ketika semua hal itu berlalu (dengan begitu cepat), Anda pasti akan merindukan masa-masa melelahkan tersebut.

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