However, there are ways to defuse your anger. You can try to become a mother is more relaxed in the face of children. Mothers who are not always provoked at the sight of their mischief, and how smart they make your house a mess. You can, make your home more peaceful and enjoyable. It takes hard work for it, but some of the following ways can be inspiration for you.
1. Within a day, try to laugh with the kids. Whether by ulahnya laugh, or tease them with your act childish.
2. Sleep as you can. Usually, when accompanying children nap (or sleep at night), the mother so go to sleep. Just enjoy this moment, especially when accompanied him to sleep at night. Never mind lah, once in a while let the dirty dishes on the dinner table.
3. When you're stressed at work, and the youngest a tantrum, or you forgot to prepare his lunch, you will probably spew your resentment at the eldest. It is not fair for him. To avoid this confusion, prepare all the needs of children the night before.
4. Indulge yourself. Occasionally, irritation or fatigue to treat you, find you guilty pleasure. Either read the novel, the show went to sale at the mall, or eat your favorite cheese cake. Remember, only occasionally.
5. When children throw tantrums, you may be accustomed to saying, "Nah should", or "Never". Try to change those words with "Yes". For example, "Yes, we'll to the game when you're done eating," instead of, "If you eat baseball, our baseball left."
6. Like when studying at school, kids would think if something is said over and over again. For example, "Come, eat while sitting," or, "watching it when you're learning, yes," or, "By the clear, she wants what you understand baseball."
7. Making the ban only for something that is important. You do not need to be upset just because your child choose the color red shirt and orange shorts. Or, he chose to sleep with the head positioned at the foot of the bed. Or, adjust the way so that his face not covered eating affected food.
8. When you are so tired when caring for children, you may be thinking, "When he got older, I no longer need to feed him." Or, you do not need to wash your diapers every day dozens. But, believe me, when all it is passed (so quickly), you will definitely miss the days are exhausting.
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