fear began to flourish in pre-school age.Sometimes portions seems excessive, then to do?
Brave without fear is ignorance. He is in every person as a brake protector. See it, toddlers are often desperate for true fear still minimal. It was only over the age of 3 years, the fear grows by itself. There are also thriving due to environmental stimuli. If not controlled, might inhibit the growth of activity and. Consider ways to avoid menetralisasinya to harm.
A. FEAR OF THE PUBLIC
1.TFEAR OF THE DARK
This fear typical preschool. If the lights suddenly went out, started crying baby or holding her breath was so tense. "I'd watch television anymore kok enggak now my eyes can see what?" Changes from light to dark like this for the pre-school is a frightening extreme conditions.
HOW TO OVERCOME:
Soothe your baby to feel safe and comfortable is the recommended steps. Explain to him that dark conditions are only temporary. Encourage the child to overcome the dark with a flashlight looking for, emergency lights, or candles. The way it besides make child does not dissolve in fear gripping, also let her know, there are ways that situation could be bright again.
2. FEAR OF GHOSTS
Well, especially after he watched mystical impressions-impressions on television, he would be enggak deh dare to own bathroom, bed was asked for the company. This fear was reasonable because the imagination and curiosity of children is very large.
HOW TO OVERCOME:
- Find the source of the little terror. If his gut is always shrink after watching a horror movie, yes, ask him to stop the habit of watching a scary-scary.
- Reassure children that the evil was gone with accompanying children to see the places she feared as a monster hiding place or a ghost to ensure that the place is "safe".
- Make a spiritual approach. Describe the fear of supernatural beings can be "driven" with a lot of praying to God before sleeping.
- Help the children finish the story with a moral message that the good will prevail. Suppose he talked about the evil beast, parents can suggest the existence of a brave little boy who managed to tame the beast of the help of the Almighty. Thus parents do not hinder a child's imagination, but also does not encourage children to be timid.
- Divert the attention of children from the grim shadow of reading more neutral stories before bed.
- If your child likes music, perdengarkan soft instrumental music to accompany his sleep so he does not feel alone.
3. FEAR BIG THINGS
For example, your child always cry every view tronton truck. This fear can be caused by several things. One of these children had never seen the vehicle before. He was often seen a car or other four-wheeled vehicles, or even have a toy truck at his house, but did not think size is very large realnya. That is why, he'd shocked and frightened when there is a big vehicle and it was strange.
HOW TO OVERCOME:Usually through the process of recognition and habituation, fear the child will gradually disappear. The first thing to do is to calm the child, for example, with hugging, and then introduce this large object. "That was his truck tronton. Large size because of the back should be able to accommodate the goods including toys Adek in large quantities."
On many occasions, children gradually get used to see, for example, take a walk to see the big trucks that. Once used, it is not possible the child actually crazy about big vehicles.
4. VOICES FEAR HARDVoice train, car horns, even a blender can be a source of fear for the child he had never heard this loud before. Maybe the child did not get out much, and environmental conditions is very quiet house. Or it could be all superbising equipment was not in the house.
HOW TO OVERCOME:
Toward children and rub-rub shoulders. "You were scared of loud noise from car horns, yah?Horn sounded to warn the Mother in order not to cross the first since the car was going through." . After an explanation, or used, fears children will disappear by itself.
Fear of thunder is reasonable. Let alone a toddler, school age children and even adults are afraid to hear it. Explanation parents will not be able to remove the fear.So, stay calm children when the voice bergelegar.
Beware of IF.
When children respond to too much loud noise. Explanation, introduction, and habituation parents look no use. The fear was seen settling in children.He still rushed run or scream so the actual sound familiar to hear. It is possible that children experience hypersensitivity to noise. Need appropriate therapy to eliminate them.
Ipoel, Uttiek. Ipoel, Uttiek. Ilustrator Pugoeh Illustrator Pugoeh
Konsultan ahli: Consultant expert:
Fitriani F. Fitriani F. Syahrul, Psi., M.Si Syahrul, Psi., M. Si
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